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First impression leaves a lasting impression when it comes to dating. So be careful when you go on your first date with the special someone as you may not get the opportunity for a second date. The first date is crutial as the special person will agree to meet you again only if you make a positive impression on her. Follow these 6 dating tips to have a great first date.

Women still like gentleman

We may be in the 21st century, but ladies still like gentlemen. So watch your manners. You should be courteous, speak softly and enquire after her comfort. She is watching you. So be nice to people around you, especially the guy who takes orders from you. Show her (through your actions) that you are compassionate and have a heart for other people as well.

Watch your table manners

Although your dinner date is a casual event, consider it to be a formal ocassion. Keep in mind, you are meeting her over coffee or dinner for the very first time. Make sure to consult her before placing an order. Also be careful to follow the table manners. Use your hands, napkins and toothpicks with care. She will observe you as table manners are important to most women. She will judge your table manners and rate you as a careful or a particular person.

Inclusive conversation

Make sure that both of you participate in the conversation. Don't make it one-sided. While speaking, include her in the conversation by seeking out her opinion or interest in the topic. Best option is to let her speak and give your opinion in between. Show interest in what she is talking and add your point of view to it.

Follow mobile manners

Remember that you are on a date with her. So there is no point speaking to someone else over the phone or texting replies. On a date, especially the first one, it works if you give her total attention. Keep your phone aside the entire time you are with her.

Don't bring up your 'Ex'

Your 'Ex' should not come up in the conversation. But if she asks about your Ex girlfriend, you can tell her whatever she wants to know and nothing more. Stay away from giving details like how it was - good or bad – in the first date. There will be plenty of opportunities to explain why it didn't work, if your first date is successful.

Avoid ambiguity

Tell her clearly if you like her that you are interested in her. Also mention specifically that you would like to meet her again. Vagueness doesn't work in a relationship, so avoid it. In case even she expresses her interest in you clearly then set a second date with her before leaving.

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